People will say that they grind grind grind and *Poof* the level up came. This narrative, although it is not necessarily false, leaves out a very important piece of the glow up process and can make people feel like success just isn’t in the cards for them. The perception that every time you start to get ahead you hit a wall or you get knocked backward can be completely demoralizing. But instead of looking at these situations as a blockage, understand that they are in fact a g